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Don’t wait to ask these questions to the ones you love…

1 Oct

1) When did you know when you were in love?

2) Are you happy with your life?

3) Did you raise me the way you wanted to?

4) What was your favorite day?

5) What is your favorite memory?

6) Did you accomplish everything?

7) Did I love you enough?

eight) Do believe in a higher power?

9) Where will you go when you die?

10) Where will I?

11) Did you eat enough?

12) Did you work hard enough?

13) Did you protect those you love?

14) What fights do you wish you won?

15) Which fights do you wish you fought?

16) Who was your first love?

17) What was your worst breakup?

18) What is your favorite memory of me?

19) What shouldn’t I have done in my life?

20) What should I have done in my life?

21) Are you proud of me?

22)  What was your favorite meal?

23) What was your favorite city?

24) Who was your first kiss?

25) Who taught you to drive?

26) Who taught you how to swim?

27) Who gave you the best advice in your life?

28) What was that advice?

29) What advice do you wish you gave me?

30) What advice can you give me now?

31) What was your favorite vacation?

32) Where didn’t you get to go?

33)  Do you believe in government?

34) Where did society go wrong?

35) Where did it go right?

36) Do you believe in intelligent life other than ours?

37) Who shot JFK?

38) Were the Moon landings real?

39) Have you ever seen a UFO?

40) Do you know anyone that has?

41) What was your saddest moment?

42) When did you last cry?

43) Who do you wish you could have comforted?

44) What was your favorite party?

45) What music did you like?

46) What were your favorite movies?

47) What were your favorite books?

48) What book did you read the most times?

49) What movie did you watch the most?

50) Did you ever have one night stands?

51) Did you ever have an STD?

52) Did you want children?

53) Do you wish you told your parents you loved them enough?

54) Have you ever cheated on a test?

55) Have you ever cheated while in a relationship?

56) What was your biggest fear?

57) What truly scared you?

58) What do you wish you learned?

59) What do you wish you did?

Did you ever wait too long to tell someone you loved them?

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Looking for Love: and the lists we shouldn’t create

24 Sep

If you make a list of attributes you are looking for in your “true love”, you will find that you are looking for the female/male version of yourself, and that list is the opposite of what you should be looking for . Take that list, invert it and you will find the person who is right for you. Opposites do attract and you will challenge yourself for the rest of your life.

You get to an age when you start to question your life and it is my hope that this happens when you first start to think.  This can happen at any age but the earlier the better.  I wonder if human’s start to think when they start to speak?  For me I think it happens when we are taught the word why.

I’ve been analyzing why I am single.  I don’t want to be or least I don’t think I want to be.  Inherently no human wants to be alone.  We thrive in groups, we grow in our relationships and interactions with others. I personally was taught in high school that physical human touch makes us happier.  We need each other.  We need our families, our friends and our lovers.

I have a great family, there is no better family in the world and I hope everyone thinks that.  I don’t believe everyone thinks that, but I hope so.  Could my family be better?  It could be different but I wouldn’t want that, I wouldn’t want to change what we have in any way.

I have amazing friends, they are supportive, fun and help me cope with day to day life by sharing it with me.

But I do not have a partner in life.  Maybe I have had that at certain points in my life but I do not have that now and I haven’t had it for a while.  As I get older that person become more elusive and the chances of finding her are slimmer. Very pessimistic thinking, which only leads me farther down the pit of loneliness.  I almost wrote the pit of despair, but then I would be quoting the best love story of all time.

People are asked what they are looking for in a lover, a soul mate, a husband, a fiancée, a wife, a life partner all the time. Answers obviously vary upon the person. They can range from physical traits, to social status, monetary accumulation, astrological signs, ownership of domestic animals, tastes in art, participation in outdoor activities, need for creation of life, intake of fluids, inhalation of smoke, etc.

My list was very specific for my whole life and it continued to grow.  I don’t like to get personal but I will make a list below and it may or may not be mine.  At the end of it, (which I may come back to add things as I remember them or find them) I will sum up what I have realized is all I need.  The basic formula for my own compatibility with a female.

MY RIDICULOUS LIST OF PERFECTION – Blond, Big Tits, not too fat, not too skinny, great smile, great laugh, smart, witty, friendly, loves movies, loves TV, loves books, loves puzzles, loves games, has a great family, has wonderful friends, loves dogs and not cats, enjoys the outdoors but isn’t obsessed, sophisticated but not snooty, not too tall, not too short, around my height, a burning fire in their soul for life and love, enjoys but isn’t obsessed with sports and a general understanding is fine, not too introverted and not too extroverted, loves the water, world traveler or passionately wants to, likes to fly and stay in hotels…I can’t continue making this list because I feel it is embarrassing me.

All I need is someone that doesn’t annoy me, while challenging me and sparking my life.  If you think this statement is profound or what we all should be looking for you are wrong.  I realize this only from writing it.  What it should read, and what I truely believe is…

We should challenge each other, we should light up each other’s souls in every and all ways humanly and unhumanly possible, and all the while not truly annoying each other.

I probably should end with that, but the reason why I wanted to share my thoughts on this subject came to me after having sex.  The moment you know you love someone happens after sex.  If your gut reaction isn’t to get as far away as possible from the person you just slept with, then you might have found someone to love.

Mantras…

24 Sep

What I have learned from life and my parents

– If don’t believe in anything, you’ll fall for anything. “sucker punch?”

– You can’t love something that hasn’t happened

– It is better to feel skinny than be skinny.

– I may or may not be smart, but I am not smart enough to lie.

– Lying is not a smart thing to do if you have a bad memory.

– Kill them with kindness only gets you so far in life, but you will lead an easier life.

– Its not the end when you lose everything you have in life, its the beginning.

– The best word in any language is the word “why”. Why? Because it is infinite and can never be answered, try.

– Don’t own more music than you can listen to.

– If you make a list of attributes you are looking for in your “true love”, you will find that you are looking for the female/male version of yourself, and that list is the opposite of what you should be looking for . Take that list, invert it and you will find the person who is right for you. Opposites do attract and you will challenge yourself for the rest of your lives.

– The moment you know you love someone happens after sex.